There's a big hoopla going on in the blogging world amongst the women bloggers about a recent article in the Wall Street Journal, by a female, about how women use conferences as an excuse to get out of the house and party and tie it up in a pretty ribbon, saying it's work.
I know female bloggers. I know how hard they work. I know they work almost 24/7, interacting with readers, creating relationships with other bloggers and media organizations.
However, the women bloggers do seem to bring this on themselves.
Have you been on twitter during BlogHer? For an entire weekend, the twitter-sphere is inundated with bloggers talking about how so and so is feeding them free breakfast and lunch, and dinner. So and so is giving them sodas and food. And don't forget the whole Chris Mann thing, where women were raving like lovesick teenagers over him and he's making a living going to women's conferences to perform for women.
Every company has a hotel suite where there's a party that everyone attends to pick up swag. They go on and on about all the swag they get. They even have giveaways after the conference giving away some of the swag they got because it was so much.
While you may make those contacts during the conference. You network with companies and other bloggers... YOU make it sound like a 4 day party where you are pampered the whole time. You make it sound like a party vacation.
I won't pretend to act like men are saints at conferences. That men don't drink the whole time. That men don't use it as an excuse to get laid.
BUT, they're not tweeting about being drunk, being wined and dined, partying all weekend.
#justsayin
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
Time
Time is one of those subjective things. At times time moves so slow you don't think you'll ever get what you're waiting for. At other times it moves so fast you don't have time to blink before it's gone.
When I was pregnant, time moved so slow. A nine month pregnancy felt like 2 years. When I was in labor, time moved even slower. Since the time the boys were born, time seems to have flown. It seems only yesterday I was holding and cuddling them all night. Now they're about to graduate 2nd grade.
When my Mom died, all I could do was lament that I didn't have time with her. I didn't have the time to tell her I loved her.
Now my father is dying. We were promised anything between 2 months and 5 years. We knew we didn't have much time, but we had time. Time for us to say goodbye, make memories, one last trip to Disney, time for the boys to understand what is going on.
On April 1st, my father found out he had Stage 4 Colon and Liver cancer. He went in for surgery on April 11th. He's now battling for his life because he caught an infection in the hospital. In 23 days, we've gone from having forever with my father, to the possibility that any day could be his last.
Where is this time we were promised? I can't even complain it went by too fast, because we haven't had it! I'm struggling with how to explain it to my boys who are completely devoted to their grandfather, and he them. I thought we'd have more time for memories, for explanations, for telling each other we love them. That time is fading fast.
For my father, I'm sure he's thinking time is moving incredibly slowly. He's in so much pain, I'm sure he wants an end to the suffering. For the rest of us, time is moving way too fast. He's slipping away too quickly. I still have tons of things to say before I say goodbye.
If only this could be one of those times when we could slow down time.
When I was pregnant, time moved so slow. A nine month pregnancy felt like 2 years. When I was in labor, time moved even slower. Since the time the boys were born, time seems to have flown. It seems only yesterday I was holding and cuddling them all night. Now they're about to graduate 2nd grade.
When my Mom died, all I could do was lament that I didn't have time with her. I didn't have the time to tell her I loved her.
Now my father is dying. We were promised anything between 2 months and 5 years. We knew we didn't have much time, but we had time. Time for us to say goodbye, make memories, one last trip to Disney, time for the boys to understand what is going on.
On April 1st, my father found out he had Stage 4 Colon and Liver cancer. He went in for surgery on April 11th. He's now battling for his life because he caught an infection in the hospital. In 23 days, we've gone from having forever with my father, to the possibility that any day could be his last.
Where is this time we were promised? I can't even complain it went by too fast, because we haven't had it! I'm struggling with how to explain it to my boys who are completely devoted to their grandfather, and he them. I thought we'd have more time for memories, for explanations, for telling each other we love them. That time is fading fast.
For my father, I'm sure he's thinking time is moving incredibly slowly. He's in so much pain, I'm sure he wants an end to the suffering. For the rest of us, time is moving way too fast. He's slipping away too quickly. I still have tons of things to say before I say goodbye.
If only this could be one of those times when we could slow down time.
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Book Review: The Nortorious Lady Anne by Sharon Cullen
Title: The Notorious Lady Anne
Author: Sharon Cullen
Publication Date: February 11, 2013
Book Description
Nicholas Addison, celebrated captain of the Blackwell Shipping Fleet, has agreed to take Mrs. Emmaline Sutherland aboard the Pride and ferry the raven-haired beauty across the Atlantic on what he imagines will be a routine trip. But when the ship is attacked by pirates, the seemingly innocent passenger is revealed to be none other than the infamous marauder Lady Anne, whose name strikes fear in the hearts of sailors everywhere—and whose seductive wiles commandeers Nicholas’s affections.
Lady Anne, a legend of the high seas, has spent the last eleven years plotting revenge against her father, the owner of Blackwell Shipping. She’s targeted the Pride in hopes of plundering its captain’s company secrets. But beneath her fierce courage and bitter determination, Anne has the delicate heart of a woman—a heart that cannot help falling for Nicholas. Now Anne must make a difficult choice: bring down Blackwell or surrender to love.
Book Review: 5 out of 5 stars
This book is the book I've been searching for for over a year. A good old-fashioned bodice ripper, but with an actual story!!
This novel takes twists and turns, as a reader, you're taken for a bit of ride, trying to figure out where it might be going, what the answers may be. The great thing about this story, for once BOTH the hero and heroine have issues in their past. Both have demons to overcome, both are proud, both are determined to do "what's right." Both struggle with their decisions, the doubts on what they "should do," and the lives growing further and further entwined.
This novel was immensely enjoyable. I spent every free minute reading this book, and waiting for the happy ending. Waiting for two stubborn people to realize they belong together. Waiting for them to jump each other.
As someone reading romance novels for 20+ years, this story had everything I wish stories nowadays could pull off. A real story, a real dilemma, strong personalities that aren't just thrown together to try to pad out a book. And sexual attraction. Loads of it.
Ms. Cullen has brought back the "golden age" of romance novel writing, and I am a definite fan of hers, and would love to read anything past and present I can get my hands on.
Bravo!!
Author: Sharon Cullen
Publication Date: February 11, 2013
Book Description
Nicholas Addison, celebrated captain of the Blackwell Shipping Fleet, has agreed to take Mrs. Emmaline Sutherland aboard the Pride and ferry the raven-haired beauty across the Atlantic on what he imagines will be a routine trip. But when the ship is attacked by pirates, the seemingly innocent passenger is revealed to be none other than the infamous marauder Lady Anne, whose name strikes fear in the hearts of sailors everywhere—and whose seductive wiles commandeers Nicholas’s affections.
Lady Anne, a legend of the high seas, has spent the last eleven years plotting revenge against her father, the owner of Blackwell Shipping. She’s targeted the Pride in hopes of plundering its captain’s company secrets. But beneath her fierce courage and bitter determination, Anne has the delicate heart of a woman—a heart that cannot help falling for Nicholas. Now Anne must make a difficult choice: bring down Blackwell or surrender to love.
Book Review: 5 out of 5 stars
This book is the book I've been searching for for over a year. A good old-fashioned bodice ripper, but with an actual story!!
This novel takes twists and turns, as a reader, you're taken for a bit of ride, trying to figure out where it might be going, what the answers may be. The great thing about this story, for once BOTH the hero and heroine have issues in their past. Both have demons to overcome, both are proud, both are determined to do "what's right." Both struggle with their decisions, the doubts on what they "should do," and the lives growing further and further entwined.
This novel was immensely enjoyable. I spent every free minute reading this book, and waiting for the happy ending. Waiting for two stubborn people to realize they belong together. Waiting for them to jump each other.
As someone reading romance novels for 20+ years, this story had everything I wish stories nowadays could pull off. A real story, a real dilemma, strong personalities that aren't just thrown together to try to pad out a book. And sexual attraction. Loads of it.
Ms. Cullen has brought back the "golden age" of romance novel writing, and I am a definite fan of hers, and would love to read anything past and present I can get my hands on.
Bravo!!
Sunday, March 3, 2013
Huge Giveaway at The Framed Lady
My sister-site, Hair Made Beautiful, is taking part of a HUGE Facebook Fan giveaway over at The Framing Lady. I am offering up a pair of bobby pins (your choice) from Lilla Rose. There are tons of prizes!!
Check out these amazing girls and the awesome prizes they donated to help me celebrate gaining 1000 likes on Facebook! Interested in being part of an awesome giveaway like this? Email Tess at tesiahwilk@yahoo.com!
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Check out these amazing girls and the awesome prizes they donated to help me celebrate gaining 1000 likes on Facebook! Interested in being part of an awesome giveaway like this? Email Tess at tesiahwilk@yahoo.com!
Items you will win:
$20 Target giftcard from Simply, Ashley
Red, handmade scarf from Annie One Can Cook!
$15 Shop credit and free shipping from Top This By Leanne
2 elastic bracelets and a set of 1 wired bracelet and 1 pair of earrings from Sensational Creations
$15 shop credit to Studio Eleven
These Red Top earrings from Aditi Jewelry
$15 shop credit to Little Glass Slippers
Pacifier clip from Bling For Baby
$10 Amazon giftcard from Part of That World
A Vintage Feel Necklace from Peace Love Sequins
$10 Target giftcard from Sincerely, Leslie
$15 Starbucks giftcard from I Know This Much is True
A set of jeweled bobby pins from Lilla Rose
$15 shop credit to Little Glass Slippers
Pacifier clip from Bling For Baby
$10 Amazon giftcard from Part of That World
A Vintage Feel Necklace from Peace Love Sequins
$10 Target giftcard from Sincerely, Leslie
$15 Starbucks giftcard from I Know This Much is True
A set of jeweled bobby pins from Lilla Rose
Ad Space you will win:
210 x 210 ad from Ladies in Navy
2 Months Large Ad Space from Fox and Hazel
2 Months 200 x 100 ad space from The Crafty Side of Sarcasm
200 x 300 Large ad from Lily White English Rose
Medium ad from Pandora's Craft Box
Large 215 x 215 ad from The Cottage Diaries
Medium ad space from Serenity You
2 months 250 x 250 ad space from Sweet Silver Lining* (FEBRUARY SPONSOR)
2 months 200 x 200 ad space from Let It Shine
Medium ad from The Life of a Not So Ordinary Wife
Large Ad from The Domestic Geek
Glass Slipper Ad from Life in a Breakdown
2 Months Large ad space from Homegrown & Healthy
Large ad from Sunny With a Chance of Sprinkles
3 months of 200 x 200 ad space from I Know This Much is True
2 months 250 x 250 ad space from Sweet Silver Lining* (FEBRUARY SPONSOR)
2 months 200 x 200 ad space from Let It Shine
Medium ad from The Life of a Not So Ordinary Wife
Large Ad from The Domestic Geek
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2 Months Large ad space from Homegrown & Healthy
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Friday, March 1, 2013
Autism Awareness Month
As you may or may not know, I now have my own company, where I am an Independent Consultant for Lilla Rose.
Because I have two special needs children, and this is a topic very near and dear to my heart, I am on the look out for Blogs, Websites, FaceBook Pages, and FRIENDS to host a Lilla Rose Party in April.
During the month of April, any "blue" items purchased during your party (can run up to three weeks), customers will receive 10% off paid via paypal.
Party Ideas
- A Facebook or Twitter party to talk about Autism and ways we can help, as part of your month-long campaign.
- An in-home party, if you're local to my area.
- A catalog party and/or online party for you to share at work and with friends and family.
- You could use the hostess rewards to purchase "blue" pieces the website, to use for awareness campaigns or raffles throughout the year.
- You could offer the person who makes the biggest purchase during your party, the opportunity to be the mystery hostess and receive the rewards.
Contact me now at jennirv4967@yahoo.com to book your party today!
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